There are many different reasons why we may have difficulty regulating our emotions: genetic factors, our temperament, the environment we grew up in, trauma; just to name a few. In fact, we might not even have a good sense of what an emotion even is, or when we are even experiencing them! Sometimes it can just feel like a storm inside of us: a jumble or sensations, thoughts, and urges. Or maybe it’s like we are drowning in a wave of feelings and we just can’t seem to get our head above the water to be able to think clearly. Sometimes, when we are overtaken by our emotions, we can lose control over our behaviours, and end up doing or saying things that we later regret. At it’s extreme, we may try to harm ourselves or others, or maybe consider suicide. If our struggles with regulating emotions are persistent and chronic, or perhaps very intense in any given moment, we have may difficulties in our relationships, parenting, at school or work, and with our sense of self-worth and self-identity. Please know that you are not alone in this experience, and you do not have to diagnosed with something called ‘Borderline Personality Disorder’ to struggle with regulating emotion. There are many effective, evidence-based therapies and strategies available to compassionately support and treat individuals struggling with emotion regulation. Please reach out to me for more information on this issue, and if you would like to be assessed for emotion dsyregulation and/or Borderline Personality Disorder.